Valentine’s Day is a pretty polarizing holiday. I definitely feel that a sweet token or a fun date is the way to go. You do whatever works for you, but I think grand gestures are best for birthdays, anniversaries, or absolutely no occasion (which makes it an ULTRA surprise). continue reading
Divert yourself from the aisles of red plastic junk. Nothing says “I am clueless” more than a generic gift. (Unless your loved one is into it- then by all means, totally ignore me!)
Does anyone watch The Middle? It’s a show about a lower-middle-class family, and I think it’s equal parts hysterical and adorable. Anyway, this week’s episode was about Valentine’s Day and how they each celebrated in their own true-to-themselves way. Frankie (the mom) and Mike (the dad) run errands at Walgreens, and while they’re there, they pick up very practical but thoughtful gifts. Back in the car, they swap shopping bags, filled with goodies for each other. Even though the gifts aren’t expensive or exotic, they totally hit the nail on the head.
There are two options I see for Valentine’s Day:
1. Get your lobster a gift that they really want. Not a gift that reflects Valentine’s Day. Just a gift. That they really want. (Be like Frankie and Mike!)
2. Pair a special treat (I usually think in terms of edibles, but hey, I’m always thinking about food) with a note reminiscent of childhood valentines.
You get me hot and bothered + hot sauce
You’re my #1 stud muffin + a batch of freshly made muffins
I’m nuts for you + a bag of some fancy nuts
You’re sweeter than honey + jar of specialty, local honey
I like you a latte + you guessed it…. a latte!
(You get the idea…)
Along the same line, you could pair a fun date night idea with a cutesy card:
You rock! + a date night at a climbing wall
You make my heart fly + a date night at a trapeze class
I’m so lucky Eiffel in love with you + this French cooking class
(Option #2 ventures into cheesy zone, but in a way that I think is really adorable.)
Whether you’re celebrating Galentine’s Day, love for your four-legged furball, or something more of the romance variety, I hope you have a wonderful Valentine’s Day and weekend!
(The soap pictured above cracks me up! You can find it here.)
For a long time, I thought that I didn’t like Valentine’s Day. It’s not that I’m a love-Scrooge. I love the opportunity to tell my family and friends how much they mean to me! The overload sickly-sweet generic thoughtless junk is what I actually don’t like. Turning something pink or red or making it heart-shaped or adding heart icons on something does not make it thoughtful or meaningful (although it can be darn cute).
Instead of cramming into a restaurant for a romance-themed dinner with everyone else, here are a few creative ideas to surprise your special someone with. Tailor as needed, since there is no such thing as one-size-fits-all.
A card really can be enough! If you’re going this route, remember that it has to be a gooooood card. No CVS card aisle on February 13th. Find a card that really reflects your relationship! Do you binge watch tv series with your person? Are you with someone who appreciates the true shape of a heart? Add a well-written note inside, and you’re golden.
I love New Year’s Eve. No matter what you’re doing, there is an air of festivity. Whether you’re decked out in sequins celebrating on the town, or eating shrimp cocktail in your pajamas and streaming a movie on Netflix (or something in between), everything feels a bit more special on NYE.
As for me, I’m working a wedding with Doug (but he’s been warned that my assistant outfit will involve sequins… maybe even a bow tie if I’m feeling crazy).
Happy 2015. Let’s make this the best one yet.
Everyone needs a little lovin’ around Christmastime… (From the best holiday album ever, Snowed In by Hanson. Oh don’t give me that face.)
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I hope everyone has a happy everything. I am a Christmas celebrator, so I’ll be off for the next few days, hanging out with family and eating my weight in cheese.
Joy to everything!